As stay-at-home moms or working moms, we often get caught up with what needs to be done during the summer – trips, summer camps, and endless tasks lists – but what if we were to also focus on what would make our summers more enjoyable? The days are longer and that means more time as a family. That means more freedom to head to parks or backyards.
Whether your summer is half way through or you’re just getting started, I want to encourage you to make this summer yours. It may be our kids’ childhoods, but it’s our motherhood, too. Keep reading for some encouragement to make your summer yours with these tips.
Make a Family Summer Bucket List
Make your own family bucket list. This can be detailed or broad. You know what your family likes and needs, so customize your bucket list for what works for you. There’s just something about a bucket list that makes it feel like summer.
Choose to Unplug
Unplug for a bit. This one is really hard for me. Social media is a part of what I do here for Latina Mom Collective and how I make a living, but I know I need to establish healthy boundaries. I find myself with FOMO or thinking I need to do more when I’ve been scrolling on social media for too long. Unplug from your devices every now and then. Whether it’s an entire week or just a few hours during the weekend, unplug and remain in the moment with yourself and your family.
Jump In – Literally and Figuratively
Okay, you may not always be jumping into a pool, but jump into the fun with your family this summer. Whether it’s running through sprinklers or sharing an ice cream bowl, don’t miss out on these memories. You deserve to be a part of these memories as much as they deserve to have them.
This summer, I want to challenge you to make summer yours. Do what feels right for your family and let the comparisons go. Do what makes your motherhood journey unique and do it unapologetically. Let this summer be your definition of perfect and live it the best way possible – with peace.
